I read about relationships every week.  And every week I recommend great relationship books to tons of clients.  Here are some of my favorites from the last ten years (click the images to order your own copy)

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The #1 thing couples come to me wanting to change is their communication- but almost every couple means something different when they say this is their biggest issue.  Here's what I recommend reading to get a solid baseline for better conflict in relationships.

The Relationship Cure,  Dr. John Gottman

The Relationship Cure, 

Dr. John Gottman

Nonviolent Communication, Dr. Marshall Rosenberg

Nonviolent Communication,

Dr. Marshall Rosenberg

Hold Me Tight Dr. Sue Johnson

Hold Me Tight

Dr. Sue Johnson

The Science of Trust Dr. John Gottman

The Science of Trust

Dr. John Gottman

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It's totally normal for passion, desire and fascination to wax and wane over the course of a relationship, and it's also totally normal to want to to get that desire back.  Start with some of these books to get you back on track:

Esther Perel is one of the better minds in helping long-term couples stay passionately connected.  Here she breaks it down.

Esther Perel is one of the better minds in helping long-term couples stay passionately connected.  Here she breaks it down.

The Ethical Slut, Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy is arguably the most often recommended book among the clients I support.

The Ethical Slut, Dossie Easton and Janet Hardy is arguably the most often recommended book among the clients I support.

Intimacy and Desire Dr David Schnarch

Intimacy and Desire

Dr David Schnarch