Sneaky Thought Spirals- How to Stop Negative Thinking

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The next time you feel stressed take a second and notice what you are thinking.  For most of us one stressed thought leads to another and to another sending us in a stress spiral that leads nowhere good.

I call these sneaky thought spirals in session.  Lots of us get swept away in them.  

What we think impacts how we feel emotionally and physically. When we are feeling sad or anxious our thoughts can be quite dramatic and absolute.  This leads to more emotional and physical discomfort- which can be a really draining cycle.

These thoughts are often called “cognitive distortions” in psychology, meaning the way you’re thinking doesn’t necessarily match up with the reality of what’s going on.

Thinking Spirals in Psychology

Psychological research has categorized certain types of thinking that are irrational or inaccurate, or otherwise lead to problems with mood. These kinds of thinking are often  called cognitive distortions. These errors in thinking or thoughts put us in a bad mood.

Most of us fall into one or more of these thinking spiral more frequently than others as a default pattern of thinking in stress.  Knowing your patterns of thinking can help you notice and ultimately avoid a negative thinking spiral.  It can also help you from feeling overwhelmed by problematic thoughts.

I’ve provided a list of Thinking Spirals here. Remember that we all think these ways from time to time.  Which thinking spirals are most common for you?

Thinking Spirals List

The following thought patterns can seem small but are very powerful. The more stressed we become, the more our thinking narrows making it difficult to think in balanced ways. Often just identifying which spiral we’re caught in can take some of it’s power away.  

All-Or-Nothing

Seeing things as only good or only bad. Black or white, all or nothing, perfection or failure.  

Overgeneralization

Using one tiny piece of evidence to draw a large or long term conclusion.  

Mind Reading

Assuming in advance what other people think or feel- without asking them.  Sometimes this also means not believing them when they tell you otherwise.  

Catastrophizing

Expecting things to turn out for the absolute worst.

Predicting the Future

Worrying about the future and believing your worries will come true without rational analysis.

 

Personalization

Assuming things have to do with or are caused by you without checking.  

 

Negative Filtering

Filtering out all the positive information and focusing only on the negative.

 

Comparison

Sizing yourself and others up in endless comparison or competition.  Comparison is the thief of joy.  

 

Take time to notice your sneaky thought spirals this week.  Which occur most frequwntly?  Which are easiest to stop?  

If you would like help overcoming these thought spirals give me a call for a consultation or use Good Therapy to find a provider near you.